Life Coach & Personal Trainer
Northeast Ohio
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Life Coaching | Sagamore Hills, OH
SO WHOSE DREAM ARE YOU LIVING?
Most people aren't living their own. Hell, most people aren't even dreaming anymore. They feel powerless, hopeless, and passionless about most things. They'd never say it out loud. They spend more of their free time and energy distracting themselves from the life they built than they'd spend building, or reforming, a new one. Just coasting through life, going through the motions. Wake up, eat, go to work, come home, fill the time without any actual purpose, eat, sleep, repeat.
They're not lazy. They're not broken. They just don't know what they're capable of, what they actually want; and even when they do, they don't believe they can have it or deserve it.
THE MAGIC BUTTON
If there was a magic button, and pressing it meant everything you've ever wanted just came true, would you know what to press it for?
Some people would know instantly. Most people wouldn't, or they'd laugh the question off as silly, unrealistic, a waste of time to even think about.
That's a tell.
Somewhere along the way, most people stopped asking. They go through the motions, day after day, without much idea of where any of it's actually going. No passion in it, passion needs a direction to point at, and most people gave that direction away a long time ago. To work. To their kids. To everyone else's expectations. To tradition. To whatever story they told themselves about who they're supposed to be.
This is yours, press it.
WHY NOT?
Why not have relationships that are fucking amazing? Why not go for the promotion, or finally build the business? Why not break the tradition that never made sense, or start one that actually means something? Why not quit the habit you say you hate but can't seem to shake? Why settle for mediocre, for okay, for "fine," when an amazing, full life was always on the table?
SIDE BY SIDE
I don't do this to people. I do it with them, side by side.
We audit your life. Not the whole thing at once, the areas that matter most to you, the ones you actually want to change.
I help you understand yourself better. A deeper perspective, more insight into who you are and how you actually see the world around you.
Together, we figure out what you truly want in those areas, what's blocking the way, what needs to change, and how to get from point A to point B. I hold you accountable the whole way, and I'm there to guide when obstacles show up.
My job is to challenge you to challenge yourself; how you think, how you see, how you feel, how you behave. To recognize your own patterns, and break the ones that aren't serving you anymore.
Mentally. Physically. Spiritually. Emotionally. All of it.
SO WHAT DO YOU ACTUALLY WANT?
Different people come to me for different reasons. It usually comes down to one, or more, of these 4 areas. The real question, "why settle for 'good enough' in any of these?"
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Self
Knowing exactly who you are. What drives you. What you believe. What you feel, and why. Develop a mindset that works for you instead of against you. Become strong enough to be soft, and steady enough to actually feel and experience life. Develop a deeper understanding and connection with YOU, in all your glory.
Relationships
Why settle for an "alright" relationship when you can build one that is exceptional? Fully known. Fully wanted. No games, no fine print. Whether you're on the verge of divorce or separation, you want to grow and build on something you already appreciate, or you're somewhere in between... Build the kind of relationship you'd be excited to choose again and again, on purpose, every single day.
Faith & Spirituality
If you're not living life on your own terms, or God's, if that's you, you're living it on somebody else's. This isn't necessarily about religion, though it very well could be for you. It's about reconnecting with something bigger than you, instead of carrying all of it alone. Not because you're supposed to, because there's a difference between white-knuckling your way through life and actually being carried through it. Peace & Strength.
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Purpose
You're going to die one day. What the hell are you actually doing while you're here? Purpose isn't a job title, and it's not a line on your resume, it's the reason you get up that has nothing to do with paying the bills. Maybe that's the work you do. Maybe it's got nothing to do with your job at all. Either way, find the thing that makes you feel like you're spending your life, not just passing time in it.
WHAT'S NEXT?
Look, this isn't a couch to vent on. It's not about being politically correct or sugarcoating anything. People come to me because they want something different, something better. They want change. They want growth. They want more life.
The first step is the hardest, and I don't believe in dragging it out any longer than it has to be. Think of it as course correction, the path itself is lifelong, but real, massive change can happen a lot faster than you'd think.
I'll show you compassion. I'll understand where you're at. But I'm also going to challenge you, play devil's advocate, push you during the guidance. I'm not asking "how does that make you feel" a billion times. I'm asking what you're willing to do about it.
